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Jonathon Aslay
Dating and Relationship Coach Expert
http://www.UnderstandMenNow.com
Jonathon Aslay is a Dating and Relationship Coach who is a Heart Protector for Women and a Guy Spy into the male mind.
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Author's Bio:
As a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the appeal rigidity many of you stumble upon. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical look that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to say this is not true from a mans perspective.
Men are either attracted to you or they are not. Men are extremely visually stimulated. They are turned on, turned off or simply not interested. Women on some different hand find themselves continually enjoying a friendship with a man that then in their heart grows into romance, then again it doesnt work that way in a guys mind.
Men need to have an low-cost amount of physical appeal from the get go for them to even take into consideration any kind of a romance. A man may enjoy talking with you or going to events with you because he is comfortable with you, then again that does not mean he is attracted to you or desires romance with you. It just means he is comfortable with you and actually men would rather be excited by seeing you walk in a room, challenged by your wit and intimidated by your sensuality than be comfortable. The desire to be comfortable comes when they are over 65 and not before! So dont interpret them saying they are comfortable with you to mean they want to spend anything else of their life with you! Know that when a male says hes comfortable, that is what he means. When he says hes tired, he means hes tired, not bored, not angry, not sad, just tired! When a guy has made a comment that he does not feel a romantic connection, please believe him! If he shows a lack of initiating intimacy that too is a gigantic clue that he is just not that into you romantically. He may be at liberty to just be your friend.
Do not deceive your self and suppose his feelings will change. If you are seeking a romantic partner that will rock your world on every level know that the man who will do this for you need to be attracted to you from the very start. So dont sit at home hoping he will be dropped from the heavens into your driveway. Get out and meet new people. Take on new adventures! Try new things! Men tend to be involved in physical activities, so get out of the library and hit the bike path, beach or tennis courts. Being active and having fun will build your confidence and the right man will spot you at once!
